Sad 25-Year-Old Gives Love Advice And The Internet Listens

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Taylor’s explanation seems to come from a place of fear and insecurity but clearly resonates with people because it’s her most popular “poem.”

“That their lover’s once endearing stubbornness has now become refusal to compromise and their one track mind is now immaturity and their bad habits that you once adored is now money down the drain,” she writes. “Their spontaneity becomes reckless and irresponsible and their feet up on your dash is no longer sexy, just another distraction in your busy life.
Nothing saddens and scares me like the thought that I can become ugly to someone who once thought all the stars were in my eyes.”

Basically, at the beginning of their relationship, people make the crucial mistake of idealizing their lover.

That’s how they look past the bad habits and feet on the dashboard.

They fail to realize that humans are inherently imperfect and that unconditional love requires one to love their counterpart warts and all.